AM I JINXED WITH MEN

Dear GetMotivated,

I am in my early 30s, very pretty and tall too. I have struggled to keep a stable man as my own. Men tend to love me from the initial instance but the moment we start dating, they begin to develop lukewarm attitude to the relationship and before you realise it, the relationship is over as soon as it gets started. Most time I sit down and review my role in such relationships and I never find any fault of mine, neither does any of these men ever tell me what I did wrong. Infact, most times they don’t officially break up with me rather they will just develop cold feet. Wont pick calls again, wont care again and when I try to inquire, the cliché I have been very busy is used as an excuse.

I am getting frustrated as am not getting younger. It is really had to be alone as a woman especially a pretty one like me without a man to call your own while I gradually get to menopause.

Please am going crazy. Help me please.

Victoria

Response/Reply

Dear Victoria,

I sincerely feel what you are going through, but you are not alone. You don’t have to bog yourself down in such an unhealthy manner for a situation you don’t have control over. Based on your story, you never do anything wrong to these men. They just decide to tae a walk leaving you on  the cold. It shows that such a man is not meant for you.Infact, it is better he walks then leading you on, only to frustrate you when you eventually get married to such a man. Every woman or man has someone meant for him. The day you meet such a man, he will love you beyond your imaginations. He will treat you like a precious jewel he has been searching for the rest of his life. But you have to be patient and believe God. If you us trust in God, go to your knees and pray. No doubt with the way you feel, you must have been doing so. But don’t give up, God will wipe your tears when you least expected it.

Be strong and don’t give up the faith. You destined man will soon find you.

Let me know if this helps

Thank you