MY BOY FRIEND SNORES ALL NIGHT

Hi GetMotivated,

My boy friend snores all night and this makes it impractically difficult for me to catch enough sleep before morning when I go to work. Please what should I do? Do I break up with him?

Clara

Response/Reply

Dear Clara,

Thank you for taking time to write us. We sincerely appreciate it. First, regardless of what physical challenge someone feels his or her partner has, if they love each other truly, the issue of separating because of that should not arise at all if love is truely the watchword of that relationship. Having said that, its obvious your boy friend’s situation is giving you sleepless night. He needs help and you can help him. First you have to encourage him to do exercise and shake off the fat. You have to push him to do it by being part of the process. I mean you can be the one to register at the fitness club close to you for the both of you and drag him literally to go with you. Another is that you have to try and discourage him from drinking especially during the week when you will have to go to work and possibly defer his drinking to weekends. That way you can endure sleepless weekend somehow. There are some pills in the market I understand that help with snoring but I don’t subscribe to them, so i prefer the natural process of shaking off that fat that causes the snoring. I hope this helps.

Let me know if it helps ok.

Thank you